Jika seorang istri menangis di hadapanmu, itu berarti dia tidak dapat menahannya lagi. Jika kau memegang tangannya saat dia menangis, dia akan tinggal bersamamu sepanjang hidupmu. Jika kau membiarkannya pergi, dia tidak akan kembali menjadi dirinya yang dulu, selamanya! Seorang istri tidak akan menangis dengan mudah, kecuali di depan orang yang sangat dia sayangi, dia akan menjadi lemah! Seorang istri tidak akan menangis dengan mudah, hanya jika dia sangat menyayangimu. Dia akan menurunkan rasa ego-nya. Wahai suami-suami, jika seorang istri pernah menangis karenamu, tolong pegang tangannya dengan penuh pengertian. Karena dia adalah orang yang akan tetap bersamamu sepanjang hidupmu disaat kau terpuruk terlalu dalam. Wahai suami-suami, jika seorang istri menangis karenamu, tolong jangan menyia-nyiakannya. Mungkin, karena keputusanmu, kau merusak kehidupannya. Saat dia menangis didepanmu, saat dia menangis karenamu. Lihatlah jauh ke dalam matanya. Dapatkah kau lihat dan kau rasakan SAKIT yang dirasakannya karenamu?
Pada hari penciptaan PEREMPUAN, Malaikat bertanya kepada Tuhan: "Apakah keistimewaan dari ciptaanMu ini ?". Lalu Tuhan menjawab: "Ada banyak KEISTIMEWAAN yang dimiliki oleh ciptaanKu ini". Dibalik kelembutannya, dia memiliki kekuatan yang begitu dahsyat. Tutur katanya merupakan kebenaran. Senyumannya adalah semangat bagi orang yang dicintainya. Pelukan dan ciumannya bisa memberi kehangatan bagi anak-anaknya. Dia tersenyum bila melihat temannya tertawa. Dia terharu, dia menangis bila melihat kesengsaraan pada orang-orang yang dikasihinya. Dia mampu tersenyum dibalik kesedihannya. Dia sangat gembira melihat kelahiran, dia begitu sedih melihat kematian. Tetesan air matanya bisa membawa perdamaian.
Tapi dia sering dilupakan oleh suami karena satu hal. "Apa itu Ya Tuhan?". Bahwa "Betapa berharganya dia".
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Friday, October 21, 2011
Friday, October 07, 2011
Weekend Cooking Experiment
Shoyu Chicken. Said to be one of the Hawaiian dishes. It was good though it was too sweet for my taste. :)
This one is not much of an experiment, it was just one of usual creamy pasta. But since I am out of bacon and mushroom, I decided to use one of those cooked ham in the can. Surprisingly it was tasty. :)
Sunday, October 02, 2011
The Sorbet Test
You're Sweet Because You're Outrageous |
No one knows what you are up to next, and that's very endearing! You're always plotting something amazingly fun and interesting. You are quite difficult to predict. You are joyfully creative. You are an expert at making things that other people love. You are talented in seeing what's good in the world and making it better. |
Thursday, September 08, 2011
5 Wisdoms
If you are right, then there is no need to get angry.
And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.
Patience with family is love
Patience with others is respect.
Patience with self is confidence.
Never think hard about past, It brings tears.
Don't think more about future, It brings fears.
Live this moment with a smile, It brings cheers.
Every test in our life makes us bitter or better.
Every problem comes to make us or break us.
Choice is ours, whether we become victim or victorious.
Search a beautiful heart, not a beautiful face.
Beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.
And if you are wrong then you don't have any right to get angry.
Patience with family is love
Patience with others is respect.
Patience with self is confidence.
Never think hard about past, It brings tears.
Don't think more about future, It brings fears.
Live this moment with a smile, It brings cheers.
Every test in our life makes us bitter or better.
Every problem comes to make us or break us.
Choice is ours, whether we become victim or victorious.
Search a beautiful heart, not a beautiful face.
Beautiful things are not always good, but good things are always beautiful.
Saturday, September 03, 2011
What Flavor Ice Cream Are You?
You Are Rocky Road Ice Cream
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Unpredictable and wild, you know how to have fun. You're also a trendsetter who takes risks with new things. You know about the latest and greatest - and may have invented it! You are most compatible with vanilla ice cream. |
Friday, September 02, 2011
Spaghetti Carbonara
First try on making spaghetti carbonara was not a very good try. Determined to make a great one, I tried again this morning. Added more cheese and also added milk to it while I used less egg, it was very good.
On the side, I made garlic cauliflower with sour cream. It was a pretty combination. :)
On the side, I made garlic cauliflower with sour cream. It was a pretty combination. :)
Monday, August 22, 2011
Saturday, August 20, 2011
Cayden's New Haircut
Looking at how Cayden's hair has grown, I thought it would be nice if he had a haircut. So there one bright afternoon I took him to a hairdresser and asked for a very sleek cut for him. I was confused of either just trim or sleek cut. But when I actually saw the result I was happy with it. :)
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